How To Transform Your "Am I Enough" Belief

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Have you ever had a conversations with yourself where you questioned whether or not the content or information you have is worth sharing. Thoughts keep ringing in your head.

Am I good enough?
Am I pretty enough?
Am I smart enough? 

These kinds of conversations often hold us back in our content, in our posts, in announcing our business or just stop us from showing up. 

When I first started my business I constantly questioned whether or not my product was enough or if my packages offered enough. I would throw in everything but the kitchen sink (or INCLUDING the kitchen sink!) into my packages because I was worried that I wasn't giving enough to clients to make it worth their time and money. 

I was constantly concerned with being enough, 
with being enough value, 
with being worth it. 

So then the question I had to finally ask myself was: 
What is getting in the way of me really sharing messages with people and really supporting them in whatever it is they're dealing with such that they're able to make these kick-ass amazing businesses that they want so badly? 

And the answer was always me. 

It was the thoughts that I have in my head that I would really just indulge and engage, and it would stop me. I would constantly have a you-don't-look-enough conversation with myself. It happens. ALL. THE. TIME. 

The thing is, it's not going to go away. That's the bad news that I have for you. But when you really get present to why it is you're doing this in the first place, who it is that you want to support, and who you want to be there for, it really becomes very apparent that I how I look in a moment doesn't matter. 

I am my own worst enemy when it comes to what look like, who I am, what I have to say, its value and its worth.

You have something that nobody else on the planet has. And that is the ability to be fantabulously, amazingly you. 

Literally, there is no other you on the planet. So you not being present or being visible or not showing up for your business and dream clients, you not showing up for the very people that you want to serve is really of a disservice to them. 

When I was able to start seeing it that way my conversation changed to, "Nikki, you were called to do something." 

I do believe so strongly that I can make awesome difference in this world through building this coaching business, and I really believe that I can make good money doing it. I am really grateful that I have been called to do something that is bigger than how I feel and how I look in a moment.

So know that I totally get it. I've been where you are. And truthfully it doesn't go away. But really truly understanding that you are meant to do something that nobody else, literally nobody else, can do, really allows you to realize you can help people today. 

You may have thoughts that make you question if what you are going to share will be helpful or if it will be enough. But the reality is, it won't be anything if you don't share. 

You are literally sharing the message for people that aren't where you are right now and who aren't at a state where they have transformed what you've transformed in your life, who haven't accomplished what you have accomplished in your life.

As long as you're a half a step,
half a skip,
half a centimeter
ahead of whoever it is you're trying to serve and you're giving them something that'll make their lives that much easier
and that much more inspired
and that much more filled with knowledge
and that much more filled with joy,
if you're able to do that for someone, then you are definitely able to share something that's worth while.

You are more than enough.
You are the only you that exists.


Be visible in your business

Need a space to do that? Do it in the Facebook Group!

Share what you're up to, what you're about, what you're passionate about, and the messages you want to share. 


You are a joy.
You are magical.
You are awesome.
 

Go out. 
Go forth.
Share your message. 


Do you need a SUPPORT IN SIGNING YOUR NEXT CLIENT? 

Maybe you need a good reminder of what your message is and why it's important! 

Set up a coffee date with me and we can talk it about where you are in your business, what your desires are, and what it will talk to get there.

xx,

Nik